Disabled Mate - The #1 Online Dating Destination for the Disabled

Dating in the disabled community comes with a bunch of challenges that abled-bodied people can't even fathom, but that doesn't mean you can't overcome them. It’s completely natural for any of us to feel self-conscious at times, and women are especially susceptible to comparing themselves to others, which cannot result in a positive self-image. Even discussing those things that can boost a disabled person’s self-confidence to start dating and lead an overall happier and healthier life gives you a headache. So where does that leave dating?

Well, pretty much in the ditch, or at least that's how you feel. Meeting someone organically is obviously possible, but pretty soon you're faced with a huge dilemma that is often a deal breaker - how much do you need to talk about your disability? If your disability is not that obvious and you kiss and tell, the person can feel deceived and accuse you of being a liar. If you tell and kiss, chances are there won’t be another date. There is so much stigma surrounding disabled singles that you feel exhausted just thinking about having to bust every single myth about it. But what if your potential dates could already know you were disabled before your relationship even started? What if there was a way to disclose it without actually telling anyone about it? Enter online disabled dating.

We live in a wireless world where everything is just a few clicks away. We shop for groceries on the web, pay our credit card bills, work, read the news, and stay in touch and occasionally spy on our friends and frenemies. So it's only natural that we look for and find romantic partners on the internet. Searching for love in the offline world is an exhausting and often fruitless endeavor, and as much as it pains you, accepting this fact is hard. But luckily, there is another way. With Disabled Mate, an entire dating community that supports and connects people who are living with a disability, you can skip the part about having to explain your condition to someone altogether and just focus on finding a person you like for who they are, and who likes you back for the same reason. Joining Disabled Mate translates into finally being able to relax and enjoy disabled dating online like it was meant to be enjoyed - without worrying about it too much, by just letting it happen. With thousands upon thousands of users, Disabled Mate offers a large pool of potential dates who already know everything there is to know about your condition, and don't care about it too much.

Sure, everyone has their own story about living with a disability, and your perfect match will want to hear all about it, but it won’t change how they see you because chances are they’ve either gone through something similar or know someone who has. They’ve already heard it before. Now they want to talk about other things, such as cupcake recipes, the latest Tool album or climate change. In addition to connecting you to countless other users looking for someone exactly like you, Disabled Mate offers a bunch of features free of charge to make your experience that much more enjoyable. When you open up a profile, you’ll be able to start browsing the site, and once you come across someone who seems interesting you can like their profile - a light conversation starter, send them a free flirt - a moderate conversation starter, or shoot them a message to introduce yourself and comment on something you've seen on their page in a positive light - the outside-of-your-comfort-zone way to chat someone up.

To get started, the first thing you need to do is open up a profile that is going to show everyone who you are, and what kind of person you’re wishing to meet. Post a profile picture that depicts your personality, and update this photo every couple of weeks to keep your page looking fresh. That way, you tell other users you’re an active member of Disabled Mate who’s serious about finding someone. When it comes to photos, the rule of thumb is the more, the merrier so feel free to post several pictures at once.

On the other hand, when it comes to your bio, keep it short and to the point. Share only the information that’s going to make you stand out from the crowd of other individuals, such as the fact you come from a huge family, have a PhD in world literature, or chair a foundation fighting for children’s rights. Generic information, such as the fact you like to cook or read is not going to get you far. Keep it simple yet intriguing and inviting.

Upgrading your membership to premium means you can chat with someone as much as your heart desires. Plus the site algorithm will work that much harder on sending matches your way and increasing your chance of finding the one that fits like a glove. Enjoy unlimited messaging, butterflies included. Also, here at Disabled Mate, we take great pride in the fact our member base boasts thousands upon thousands of singles ready to meet someone just like you. Our members differ in various aspects of their lives - they live all over the country, hold all sorts of jobs, spend their free time in various ways, and have all kinds of hobbies and interests. Their age groups and education levels are worlds apart, meaning you're bound to find the kind of person your heart desires.

Click here to join our community today, and discover a world full of smiling people, and that special someone who’ll soon be wondering where you've been all their life!